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  1. leilockheart: FOLLOW MOCHACAFE for more photos

    leilockheart:

    FOLLOW MOCHACAFE for more photos

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  3. iamnotbasic:

    PARANORMAL DOGIVITY :D

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  4. kmbrlymae:

    Di porket maganda ung damit pumoporma na?
    di ba pwedeng wala lang talagang masuot dahil nasa labahan ung mga normal na damit muna? HHAHAHA.

    (Source: happinesstrikes)

  5. Ang PAG-IBIG ay sinimulan ni Adan at Eba. Isinalaysay nina Florante at Laura. Pinanindigan nina Ibarra at Maria Clara at syempre, itutuloy nating DALAWA.

    kornibels:

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  7. (Source: marrymeinparis, via dreamsandpassion)

  8. When a girl says "I’m done", it usually means "Fight for me."

    • Sasabihin niyang, “I hate you!” Pero sa totoo lang,”I love you.”
    • Sasabihin niyang, “Wag mo kong susundan.” Pero ang gusto niyang gawin mo, sundan mo siya’t pigilan.
    • Sasabihin niyang, “Iwanan mo na ko, kung nahihirapan ka na.” Pero sa totoo lang, “Gusto niyang ipaglaban mo pa siya.”
    • Sasabihin niyang “Umalis ka na!” pero ang ibig niyang sabihin eh, “Dyan ka lang.”
    • Sasabihin man niya sa’yong, “Wala kang kwenta!” Pero sa totoo lang, “Mahalaga ka sa kanya.”
    • Pero once na sinabi niyang, “Sawa na ko. Ayaw ko na! Pagod na ko.” ‘Wag mo siyang iiwan. Dahil sa likod ng mga salitang binaggit niya, may nagsasabing, “Dyan ka lang. ‘Wag na ‘wag mokong iiwan.”

    Dahil sa mga panahon na ganito siya… Puro kalungkutan at hinanakit ang nadarama niya, ‘yan ang panahon na mas kailangan ka niya.

    (Source: misskatrinarose, via dreamsandpassion)

  9. Examples of stupid questions people can ask these days:-

    whattadeuce:

    1. When people see you lying down, with your eyes closed they still ask:- Are you sleeping?
    A: No! I’m training to die?

    2. When It’s raining and someone notices you going out, they ask: - Are you going out in this rain?
    A: No,in the next one.

    3. Your friend calls your home phone:- Where are you?
    A: At the bus stop!

    4. They see you wet coming out from the bathroom:- Did you just have a bath?
    A: No, I fell in the toilet bowl!

    5. You are standing right in front of the elevator on the ground floor and they ask:- Going up?
    A: No, no, I am waiting for my apartment to come down and get me.

    6. Your boyfriend comes to your house with a bunch of flowers. And you still ask him:- are those Flowers?
    A: No baby! They are Carrots. 

    7. You’re in the toilet when someone knocks on the door asking: - Is anyone in there?
    A: No! The SHIT is talking to you

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  10. trungphan: Arguing In A relationship Embrace conflict. There is no need to fear it. Conflict is normal, even healthy. Differences between you mean that there are things you can learn from each other. Often conflict shows us where we can or need to grow. Go after the issue, not each other. Friendly fighting sticks with the issue. Neither party resorts to name calling or character assassination. It’s enough to deal with the problem without adding the new problem of hurting each other’s feelings. Listen respectfully. When people feel strongly about something, it’s only fair to hear them out. Respectful listening means acknowledging their feelings, either verbally or through focused attention. It means never telling someone that he or she “shouldn’t” feel that way. It means saving your point of view until after you’ve let the other person know you understand that they feel intensely about the subject, even if you don’t quite get it. Talk softly. The louder someone yells, the less likely they are to be heard. Even if your partner yells, there’s no need to yell back. Taking the volume down makes it possible for people to start focusing on the issues instead of reacting to the noise. Get curious, not defensive. Defending yourself, whether by vehemently protesting your innocence or rightness or by turning the tables and attacking, escalates the fight. Instead of upping the ante, ask for more information, details, and examples. There is usually some basis for the other person’s complaint. When you meet a complaint with curiosity, you make room for understanding. Find points of agreement. There almost always are parts of a conflict that can be points of agreement. Finding common ground, even if it’s agreeing that there is a problem, is an important start to finding a common solution. Look for options. Fighting ends when cooperation begins. Asking politely for suggestions or alternatives invites collaboration. Careful consideration of options shows respect. Offering alternatives of your own shows that you also are willing to try something new. Make concessions. Small concessions can turn the situation around. If you give a little, it makes room for the other person to make concessions too. Small concessions lead to larger compromises. Compromise doesn’t have to mean that you’re meeting each other exactly 50-50. Sometimes it’s a 60-40 or even 80-20 agreement. This isn’t about scorekeeping. It’s about finding a solution that is workable for both of you. Make peace.  Agree that the relationship is more important than winning arguments. Sometimes this means  staying up very, very late until both of you come to a workable compromise.

    trungphan:

    Arguing In A relationship

    • Embrace conflict. There is no need to fear it. Conflict is normal, even healthy. Differences between you mean that there are things you can learn from each other. Often conflict shows us where we can or need to grow.
    • Go after the issue, not each other. Friendly fighting sticks with the issue. Neither party resorts to name calling or character assassination. It’s enough to deal with the problem without adding the new problem of hurting each other’s feelings.
    • Listen respectfully. When people feel strongly about something, it’s only fair to hear them out. Respectful listening means acknowledging their feelings, either verbally or through focused attention. It means never telling someone that he or she “shouldn’t” feel that way. It means saving your point of view until after you’ve let the other person know you understand that they feel intensely about the subject, even if you don’t quite get it.
    • Talk softly. The louder someone yells, the less likely they are to be heard. Even if your partner yells, there’s no need to yell back. Taking the volume down makes it possible for people to start focusing on the issues instead of reacting to the noise.
    • Get curious, not defensive. Defending yourself, whether by vehemently protesting your innocence or rightness or by turning the tables and attacking, escalates the fight. Instead of upping the ante, ask for more information, details, and examples. There is usually some basis for the other person’s complaint. When you meet a complaint with curiosity, you make room for understanding.
    • Find points of agreement. There almost always are parts of a conflict that can be points of agreement. Finding common ground, even if it’s agreeing that there is a problem, is an important start to finding a common solution.
    • Look for options. Fighting ends when cooperation begins. Asking politely for suggestions or alternatives invites collaboration. Careful consideration of options shows respect. Offering alternatives of your own shows that you also are willing to try something new.
    • Make concessions. Small concessions can turn the situation around. If you give a little, it makes room for the other person to make concessions too. Small concessions lead to larger compromises. Compromise doesn’t have to mean that you’re meeting each other exactly 50-50. Sometimes it’s a 60-40 or even 80-20 agreement. This isn’t about scorekeeping. It’s about finding a solution that is workable for both of you.
    • Make peace.  Agree that the relationship is more important than winning arguments. Sometimes this means  staying up very, very late until both of you come to a workable compromise.

    (via chxrockinkicks)